I hate being attached

I hate the after break up feeling. I know I did the right thing breaking up with Brady, he is not the guy for me, but I was "attached". I think the worst thing about break-ups is getting "unattached" from someone. I still want to talk to him, I want to know how he is doing, and how he is taking the break-up. I want to call him, but I won't. Right now I don't even have the thoughts that, he is so great, and I will never find anyone better. I know I will find someone better. But right now I am just missing him. Knowing myself pretty well I know that I only need a few days, and then I will find someone new, but right now I am kinda sad.